A Guide for Parents: The Genius of Dr. Maria Montessori and Her Theory of the Absorbent Mind
Gina Tzizik • October 4, 2024

The Theory of the Absorbent Mind


Central to Dr. Maria Montessori's philosophy is the concept of the Absorbent Mind, a term she used to describe the sponge-like ability of young children to absorb knowledge from their environment effortlessly. I often think of the child's brain as taking pictures of everything around them. This theory is based on two fundamental principles.


Sensitive Periods

Montessori observed that children go through specific stages of development where they are particularly receptive to certain types of learning. Children can acquire skills and knowledge more easily and naturally during these sensitive periods. For example, a child in the sensitive period for language will pick up new words and sounds more readily.


Unconscious Learning

According to Montessori, young children (0-3 years) learn unconsciously and effortlessly. They absorb impressions, attitudes, and information from their surroundings without any conscious effort. This process begins at birth and continues until around six, making early childhood a critical time for learning and development. This unconscious learning is the foundation for a child's understanding of culture, language, family rituals, and routines. Young children naturally imitate what is happening around them, but they also absorb the nuances such as the appropriate tone of voice, the accent used, and the smells of what home feels like. As adults, we often prefer things directly related to our absorbent period of life.


How the Absorbent Mind Shapes Learning


The Absorbent Mind theory underscores the importance of providing young children with a rich, stimulating environment. Here's how it shapes learning in the Montessori approach.


Prepared Environment

Montessori classrooms are carefully designed to offer a variety of hands-on activities that cater to different developmental stages and interests. These environments are organized, accessible, and aesthetically pleasing, encouraging children to explore and learn independently. You will notice that Montessori environments tend to have a crisp, uncluttered feel, with sensitivities to color and how much visual input the child is exposed to. This allows the child to understand the environment's patterns and follow their learning style without being overstimulated.


Self-Directed Learning

Children in Montessori settings can choose their activities, fostering independence and self- motivation. This freedom allows them to engage deeply with tasks that interest them, enhancing their ability to absorb and retain knowledge. Classroom teachers consciously and consistently observe children and prepare work (activities) so that they anticipate what kind of work will interest the child. The teacher becomes a link to the environment and learning that helps to support the inner desire to learn and discover. Internal motivation becomes part of the foundation of the child's being, while external is only to attain approval or to receive a reward.


Multi-Age Classrooms

Montessori classrooms typically include children of varying ages. This setup allows younger children to learn from older peers and provides older children with opportunities to reinforce their knowledge by teaching others. This natural social interaction supports the absorbent mind's ability to learn from the environment and peers and better reflects the daily environment a child will experience as they grow.


Respect for the Child

Montessori educators respect each child's learning pace and style. They act as guides, providing support and encouragement rather than direct instruction in a large group. Children are free to work and develop increased concentration levels by being allowed the time to work and feed their interests. This respect helps children develop a positive self-image and a love for learning.


Practical Tips for Parents


Understanding the theory of the Absorbent Mind can help parents create a nurturing and stimulating environment at home.


Here are some practical tips:


  • Create a Child-Friendly Space. Designate areas in your home where your child can explore and engage in hands-on activities.
  • Provide age-appropriate materials and tools that encourage curiosity and independence. Use shelves to organize toys instead of the toy box or large bins that become a catch-all for items. Children need few choices so they can identify and organize themselves. Executive function is developed in this way.
  • Encourage Exploration: Allow your child to explore their interests and passions. Provide various experiences, from nature walks to art projects, that stimulate their senses and intellect. Time in nature is the best possible experience for children, from a city park to an open shoreline. Allow children ample time for discovery.
  • Be Patient and observe. Observe your child's interests and developmental stages. Please support them by providing opportunities that align with their sensitive learning periods. The school can help you understand the milestones to look for at each stage.

Foster Independence:


  1. Encourage your child to try new things and solve problems independently.
  2. Offer guidance when needed but let them take the lead in their learning journey.
  3. Take a step back and allow your child to struggle while always ensuring they are safe.
  4. Children will learn to push through challenging moments, knowing you are there to help if needed. Children learn how to respond by watching us; they are often upset when they see adults lose their cool; we know how to respond from the adults closest to us.


Conclusion:

Montessori's theory of the Absorbent Mind revolutionized early childhood education by highlighting the incredible capacity of young children to learn from their environment. By understanding and embracing this theory, parents can create a home environment that supports their child's natural learning process, fostering a lifelong love of learning and discovery. Embrace Montessori's genius and watch your children flourish as they absorb the world around.

Montessori children of different ages seating on a dock
February 1, 2025
Learning about the planes of development isn’t just for Montessori educators. Understanding your child’s development can help at home, too. The First Plane: birth-6 years During this stage children absorb everything like sponges. They are, indeed, excellent examples if what Montessori called ‘The Absorbent Mind.’ This is a time in which we are able to utilize what Montessori called sensitive periods of learning. While each child is different, there are typical patterns that emerge in regards to brain development and general readiness to learn particular skills. During the first three years of this plane, all learning is done outside of the child’s conscious mind. They learn by exploring their senses and interacting with their environment. During the second half of the plane, from about 3-6 years, children enter the conscious stage of learning. They learn by using their hands, and specialized materials in the Montessori classroom were developed with this consideration. During this time, children have a wonderful sense of order. They are methodical and can appreciate the many steps involved in practical life lessons in their classrooms. The organization of the works on their classroom shelves is intentional, which appeals again to this sense of order. The first plane is a time in which children proclaim, “I can do it myself”; it is a time of physical independence. The Second Plane: 6-12 years During the elementary years children begin to look outside themselves. They suddenly develop a strong desire to form peer groups. Previously, during the first plane, a child would be content to focus on their own work while sitting near others. In the second plane, a child is compelled to actually work with their friends. It is during this time that children are ready to learn about collaboration. During the second plane there is a sudden and marked period of physical growth. This may be a contributing factor to the observation that many children of this age seem to lack an awareness of their body, often bumping into things and knocking things over. Children begin to lose their teeth around this time as well. Their sense of order and neatness tend to fade a bit during this plane. Throughout the second plane, children’s imaginations are ignited. Since Montessori education is based in reality, we find ways to deliver real information to children through storytelling and other similar methods. For example, when teaching children about the beginnings of our universe, Montessori schools use what is called a Great Lesson. The first Great Lesson is a dramatic story, told to children with the use of props, experiments, and dramatics (think: a black balloon filled with glitter is popped to illustrate the Big Bang, with bits of paper in a dish of water used while talking about particles gathering together). This lesson is fascinating for children in the way it is presented, but gives them basic information about the solar system, states of matter, and other important concepts. Children in the second plane have a voracious appetite for information, and are often drawn strongly to what we in Montessori call the cultural subjects: science, history, and geography. While we support their rapid language and mathematical growth during this time, we are also responsible for providing them with a variety of rich cultural lessons and experiences. It is important to note that children develop a sense of moral justice at this time. They are very concerned with what is fair, and creating the rules to a new game is often as important (if not more so) than playing the actual game itself. This is the period of time in which children are striving for intellectual independence. The Third Plane: 12-18 The third plane of development encompasses the adolescent years. During the second plane, children become aware of social connections, but in the third plane they are critical. During this time children rely heavily on their relationships with their peers. They feel a strong desire to remain independent from adults, although they are not quite ready to do this entirely. It is our job to find ways that allow them to experiment with independence while also providing a safe structure in which they may do so. Children in the third plane tend to require more sleep, and they sleep later than when they were younger. They long for authentic learning experiences, and Dr. Montessori imagined just that. Her ideas of Erdkinder (children of the earth) led her to contemplate a school setting that would support children’s development during this time. She imagined a farm school, in which children would work to keep the farm operational, but also contribute to planning and decision making while doing so. During the third plane children are refining their moral compass while developing a stronger sense of responsibility. The Fourth Plane: 18-24  The final plane is a time in which young adults are striving for financial independence. They are often living away from home for the first time, and use this time to figure out where they fit into their society. Many make choices to further their education and/or explore career paths. It is during the fourth plane that people begin to develop a truer sense of who they are as individuals. Each plane of development should be mindfully nurtured. If a child is able to experience one developmental phase in a rich and carefully prepared environment, they are ready to fully take on the next phase when it is time.
Children working together with the Montessori Pink Tower
January 25, 2025
One hallmark of a Montessori education is the use of multi-age classrooms. Infants and toddlers may be together or separate, with a toddler classroom serving children 18 months to three years. Primary classrooms are for children ages 3-6, with preschool and kindergarten-aged children together. The elementary years serve children ages 6-12; some schools separate into lower (6-9) and upper (9-12) elementary, while many split elementary into two groups. Even Montessori middle- and high-school students learn in multi-age classrooms. While Montessori is not the only type of education that utilizes this approach, it’s not what most people are used to. What are the benefits of structuring a classroom this way? Read on to learn more... Learning at an Individual Pace Children in multi-age classrooms tend to have a little more flexibility when it comes to mastering skills within a specific timeframe. We know that learning is not linear, and that learners have periods of significant growth, plateaus, and even the occasional regression. In multi-age classrooms, children are typically able to work at their own pace without the added pressure of keeping up with the whole group, or even being held back by the whole group. When children in a classroom range in ages, everyone has someone they can work with, regardless of their skill level. Children don’t feel left behind if they struggle with a concept, and they also don’t feel bored by repetition of something they have already mastered. Teachers who teach in multi-age classrooms typically have deep knowledge for a range of developmental abilities, leaving them well-equipped to differentiate instruction for each individual child. Building Stronger Relationships Traditionally children move from one class to the next each year. This means not only a new set of academic expectations, different routines, and different classroom structures, but a different teacher. In multi-age classrooms teachers have a longer period of time to get to know a student and their family, and vice versa. When teachers really get to know a student, they are able to tailor instruction in regards to both content and delivery. They know how to hook a specific child onto a topic or into a lesson. They know what kind of environment a child needs to feel successful. Parents have an opportunity to get to know teachers better this way, too. If your child has the same teacher for two or three years, the lines of communication are strengthened. Parents get to know the teacher’s style and expectations. The home to school connection becomes more seamless, and the biggest beneficiary is the child. Mentors and Leaders When a child spends multiple years in the same class they are afforded two very special opportunities. Children who are new to the class are fortunate enough to be surrounded by helpful peer mentors. Children often learn best from one another, and they seek to do so naturally. First and second year students watch as the older children enjoy advanced, challenging work, and this inspires them. They look to the older children for guidance, and the older children are happy to provide it. After a year or two in the same room, students have a chance to practice leadership skills. In Montessori classrooms, the older children are often seen giving lessons, helping to clean up spills, or reaching out a comforting hand to their younger friends. The best part is kids make the transition from observer to leader in their own time. It doesn’t happen for all children at the same time, but when it does it’s pretty magical to observe. Mirroring Real-Life There is no other area in life in which people are split into groups with others who are exactly their chronological age. Whether in the family, the workforce or elsewhere, people ultimately need to coexist with people older and younger than themselves. Doing so makes for a more enriching environment, replete with a variety of ideas and skills. Why not start the experience with young children in school? Moving On  While staying in the same class for multiple school years has many benefits, a child will eventually transition into a new class. While this can feel bittersweet (for everyone involved!) children are typically ready when it is time. The Montessori approach is always considering what is most supportive of children depending on their development. When formulating how to divide children into groupings, Maria Montessori relied on her ideas about the Planes of Development. There are very distinctive growth milestones children tend to reach at about age 3, another set around age 6, and yet another at age 12. The groupings in our schools are intentional, and they give kids a chance to feel comfortable in their community, while also preparing them to soar forward when the time is right.